What happens when you’re thinking of getting married? What are the pains of a wedding?
They are the worries that appear when you compromise and that grow more intense as the date approaches.
Our first worry is choosing the date and location of the event, as well as the banquet hall and afterparty. Deciding the budget of everything and the number of guests is another important topic.
Then you start to plan your wedding day.
As soon as we start, we find ourselves with all of the institutional paperwork, the documents required, and of course their delays.
Then we begin the job of choosing the invitations and the date on which they will be sent. But most importantly, the weather (a worry that will always be present). Always having a plan B is primordial.
The couple’s closest relatives will find out about all the organizing and some will offer their help, while others will ask for a small detail to be added or guests to be invited that they believe should be present…Here the complications and problems come!
Picking out the suits, the shoes, the wedding rings, the headdress or bridal bouquet is no easy matter either, and can cause many headaches. Our figure, weight and how we wish to look on the day. Even for the honeymoon, if our planning isn’t very clear, it can rob us of a good night’s sleep.
Suppliers’ payments, purchasing small details and delivery schedules, flowers, menu tastings, and whether it will please the guests. Possible intolerances, some of which you might just hear of in the days leading up to the wedding. Planning the banquet’s seating plan. None of these matters are small.
Guests and close friends that disappear or never reply to your invitation. Possible cancellations in the week days before the wedding. Anything could happen!
It’s very important that you agree on decisions and that everything is talked through clearly in order to avoid any unpleasant moments, especially close to the wedding. The bride and groom should be involved as much as possible in the planning, and their best option is to hire a professional to accompany them in this journey.
At all weddings there are unforeseen events, but a wedding planner minimizes them, because they’re supervising everything that the bride and groom asked to happen. They’re always at their side, so that they may fully enjoy this special day. As well as taking care of organizing all of the general workload thoughout the previous months, giving the couple time to occupy themselves as they see fit.
Will you allow me to accompany you?
